I know someone who’s been sexually assaulted – how can I help them?

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If you have seen someone being sexually assaulted, behaving indecently, or something that you think is sexual violence, please call Policelink on 131 444. If it’s urgent and the incident is happening right now, please call Triple Zero (000).

If you know someone who has been sexually assaulted, often the best way to support them is by listening. It is their choice if they would like to report to police – if they want to speak with police, you can help them with this process.

How can I support someone who has been sexually assaulted?

In most circumstances, someone who has been assaulted may need help and support from family and friends. They may want to talk about it, or they may not. A victim-survivor might want you to go with them if they choose to speak with police, which could help them remember or preserve important evidence.

If you are supporting someone who has experienced a sexual assault, it is important to listen and assure them:

• “I believe you”
• “Thank you for trusting me enough to tell me what happened”
• “I’m sorry this happened to you”
• “I support you no matter what you choose to do about it”

How can I be sure it was sexual assault?

If someone is unsure if they have been sexually assaulted, raped, or have experienced sexual violence, you can find out more on our What is sexual assault? page.

Medical assistance

There are a number of options for victim-survivors of sexual assault. Their health and wellbeing is the first concern – depending on circumstances, they may want you to help them with medical assistance. You can find out more information about medical help by visiting our medical assistance page. If they need urgent medical assistance, please call Triple Zero (000).